Owning Your Sexual Self

99. Just Two Bitches on Only Fans with Tatum Zoe

January 17, 2022 Rachel Maine
Owning Your Sexual Self
99. Just Two Bitches on Only Fans with Tatum Zoe
Show Notes

I’m super pumped to have ‘regular bitch with blue hair’ Tatum Zoe on this week to talk all about Only Fans! Only Fans is a platform that is growing so much, that gets a lot of shade, but I truly believe so much good can come from it.
Who is Tatum?
Tatum is my Arizona girl crush.
Tatum is super loud, out there, and honest and open with her friends. She’s the friend that just overshares everything about her life.  Tatum got her start on instagram, talking into the camera like it was one of her friends. Then she started her podcast after being a serial dater, and realized that all these stories would make for great listening. Now that she’s fully stepped into her confident sexy girl vibe she’s seriously thinking about starting an Only Fans, but is worried about the stigma. She’s been doing Instagram modeling for a while, and is realizing she’s giving away all these pictures for free, why shouldn’t she start getting paid for them?

I officially started my Only Fans profile in April of 2020. It’s been awesome for many reasons. I’ve been able to connect with more people, oftentimes people will randomly find me on Only Fans and then go over to my instagram so they can get a little bit more of my real life, and they’re listening to my podcast, or jumping into my coaching programs. In general it’s just another network of people that you’re reaching.

Is Only Fans just porn?
Nope! Only Fans isn’t always porn, so much of it is boudoir or implied nudes, just women being their confident sexy selves! I’m not always done up, or doing professional photos, sometimes it’s just waking up and holding a boob and taking a selfie, but I’m getting all these compliments on my confidence. People truly just love to see women that are embracing the confident sexy side of themselves.

Why Do Only Fans?
 We're both entrepreneurs, we’re going to make money where we can make the money. I have goals of being multimillionaire someday, having multiple streams of income is going to support that, and if we can do something that I already have access to, I’m going to do it. 
You can decide what you charge for on Only Fans, you can make your own "menu" of what you offer.
I definitely fall into the exhibitionist category, I enjoy being watched, and looked at, and receiving the feedback from people about how hot I am or how sexy that is.

How easy is Only Fans to do?
You don't need to quit your day job, Only Fans so manageable to do on the side.  If you can consistently post at least a few times a week then you're doing a good job. The majority of your money is going to come from what they call "pay per view" which is through your direct messaging. It's going to be people messaging you asking for specific things, you then create that for them, and you decide how much you're going to charge for that thing. 

Are there haters?
Yeah, of course there are. But, what’s funny, is that my two biggest months were the first two months I started because all those haters subscribed to my only fans just to snoop on what I was doing. After I announced I was doing this, people started asking my husband Danny questions about our marriage, if I was doing porn, if we were okay, or getting divorced. Like WHAT? People can not wrap their heads around the fact that Danny is okay with this. But, the people that have a problem with this, they’re the ones who need to take that inside look and ask themselves why is this triggering to me?
“If it makes you happy, fuck it” I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in my life, and the most confident I’ve ever been in my life.
 

Connect with Tatum!
Instagram: @TatumZoeee
Podcast: Girl Stop Talking

Connect with Rachel!
Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine
Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise
Facebook: Rachel Maine
Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com